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Most nights, after his wife, Kate, had gone to bed, Tom surfed the Internet for porn. Kate learned about this during their second session of couples therapy. Despite Tom's claims that his nocturnal habit had nothing to do with their love life, she worried he preferred porn to having sex with her.
That's a common reaction. That's good news, because a lot of people look at porn. Inthe porn industry raked in nearly 13 billion dollars. For most women, there's no need to worry. Whatever may be drawing a man to porn, it's seldom a reflection on their partner, says sex therapist Lonnie Barbach, PhD, in practice in San Francisco. It's the novelty. It's a turn-on. Still, the question remains: Why do so many men like looking at pictures of naked people?
That's not an easy question to answer. Porn-induced arousal has been linked to many parts of the brain. One recent theory holds that mirror neurons, brain cells that fire when an action is performed as well as when it's observed, play an important role in male arousal. But knowing what's fired up by porn doesn't tell us why our brains get turned on.
Stambaugh points to evolution.
Men's brains, he says, are hard-wired for easy arousal, so that men are ready for sex whenever opportunity knocks -- a propagation-of-the-species thing. With online porn so readily at hand, vicarious opportunities -- cue the mirror neurons -- are ever present. Once Kate realized that porn was not her replacement and Tom felt less ashamed about his habit, the couple talked more easily about their sex life.
And that led to sexy outfits and a little experimentation in the bedroom. The porn was never the problem, Stambaugh says. Thinking you might be interested in seeing what porn is like? Follow these guidelines to make it a positive part of your relationship. Ladies' choice. Couples who want to try viewing porn together face a huge variety of choices. Men are easy to please, so it's best to find out what their partner likes. If they like it, it's probably good enough for them. Time and money. If you're spending too much of either on porn, it often reflects a larger problem, like marital difficulties or a job loss.
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